Written by Kande Murray on November 29th 2021
Proverbs 11:1 A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight.
We all want our children to be disciplined and to be the best versions of themselves as far as possible but we have to understand that we can kill creativity in the process when we go too hard regarding the discipline factor. Furthermore, we can kill self esteem, which is what most of us do unknowingly to our Children and Grandchildren by not allowing them to express themselves. We have to remember that we cannot control everything and God gives every human their own unique brain and thought process.
I know for a fact that when children regress it is because they are not in a happy place mentally, as it would affect every area of their behaviour.
Ask yourself if you would want to be constantly oppressed by anyone and the answer is no. We all want to be free to express ourselves and flourish peacefully.
In addition physical exercise is not as important as mental exercise in children under ten years old.
“Go hard or go home” does not apply to minors.
Be the best Parent and Guardians that you can be without Stressing and Oppressing, but by Blessing and Nurturing.